I was watching American Idol the other night and the judges were discussing “focus” with the contestants. J-Lo asked, “Why is it when we have a stadium filled with adoring fans that we notice the two in the front row that aren’t smiling?” Can you relate? How true that is of life! How would our world change if we consciously chose to see the other 9998 adoring fans? How easily would our day flow if we consciously remembered the people that love and support us rather than the people that can be thorns in our side? How much would our self-love increase if we focused more on what we were doing right than what we were doing wrong? I’d be willing to bet it’s a choice that would be worth the effort!